How do i act more ladylike without changing who i am?

Being lady like doesn't mean you have to change who you are! When I think of lady like, I think of crossing your legs, no swearing, being soft spoken, and wearing dresses all the time. This isn't necessarily what you need to do, however. To appear more girly you could incorporate brighter colors or prints into your wardrobe, maybe hold back some comments or actions to appear "softer", and read up on some chick magazines for more tips! Try putting on pair of heels when you go out. A pair of heels can do wonders for the self esteem!!! Stay who you are on the inside, maybe just spiff up the outside a little more :)