Ladies (preferably college age): what am I doing wrong?

Like someone else said, colleges are largely populated by people who want to rebel, party and drink. You just have to find places where people care about other things. Go to the school library and check out who hangs out there, join a outdoors club or some type of club that has to do with your interests, check out local coffee shops and see if there are any girls studying there or something. You may still find people that like to party once and a while, but by going to places other than parties, you can find people who care about other things besides drinking. Good luck!